like what?? you have to be more specific. if you’re asking about STI’s/pregnancy related things, you’re not ready to be sexually active if you don’t know things like that :/.
it makes sex feel better because it eases the friction so there’s no pain and some women don’t produce enough vaginal lubricant on their own even though they are aroused. i don’t know what you mean by explain lol :/.
probably not. usually it changes color as a result of the blood rushing to that area during orgasm/arousal. if it’s been like that for awhile and you didn’t notice it before, see your doctor as it may be an infection.
yeah, just open the page in your browser, click on the box with lines, and submit is one of the options.
pleaseeee don’t email me saying “can i ask you a question?” or “is this mja?” obviously it’s a me, mario since i posted the email and it’s in the faq lol. my biggest pet peeve is when someone asks me if they can ask a question.. just ask it. it makes me wanna throw my computer into the ocean. the ocean’s far away and my computer was expensive, please don’t make me do that.
choose someone you fall in love with i guess. i don’t see why you should ever have to settle for someone that you don’t feel the same towards, or who doesn’t feel the same towards you. life is too short for those kind of shenanigans.
he might care about you, but i don’t think anyone that treats you like shit just because of their friends is someone that respects you and your feelings. the things he’s saying now sound too good to be true. it’s been two years, i’m sure he knows that you have feelings for him, so i think he’s trying to lead you on. if he wants to end up with you, why hasn’t he committed to you yet? why did he allow the opinion of his friends dictate the way he treated you? why has it taken him this long to finally treat you well? i think you’ve continued hooking up with him in hopes that eventually, it’ll turn into a relationship, despite the warning signs he’s given you that he’s not really a great person. at this point, you need to talk to him about your feelings and if he doesn’t make an effort to be in a relationship, you need to move on because he’s most likely jerking your chain.
no, the pap smear didn’t stretch your vagina permanently. your vagina is basically elastic. so if you’re having sex frequently, it’ll be a little more stretched (temporarily), whereas if you go weeks or months without sex, it’ll tighten back up. everyone’s vagina is a different shape/size, and it doesn’t really become bigger with sex or pap smears or whatever, it just stretches. it’s better for you that there’s no pain now, it doesn’t mean that you aren’t tight anymore.
i don’t feel that i’m personally all that helpful in this department, but i can give you some resources that are. here's a blog to ask questions. here and here. you can also search the tumblr tag for LGBT. it’s super important that you have support before you tell your parents, someone that you can lean on in case they don’t take the news well- you don’t have to face it alone, and at the end of the day, you want people who love you for who you are and don’t try to make you into something you’re not.