Cello, i’m 18 and i’m still a virgin (not by choice). Ever since i was maybe 14 or 15 I’ve had fantasies and sex dreams about having sex with older men and i still do for example last night i had a dream about having sex with joe manganiello (not complaining). it’s something about older men that just’s gets me heated, their personality (maturity), that scruff they get after shaving or not shaving, their hands, just pretty much every time i see an attractive man my skin get’s hot and feels like i can’t breathe then i just feel the need to have sex all day!. And I’ve wondered for a long time if there was something wrong with wanting to be in a relationship with an older man and with wanting to have alot! of sex with an older man…also i’ve been having fantasies about having sex with women.Not as much as i do with men, just putting that out as in i have know idea why i just do. Help me! What’s wrong with me?
there’s nothing wrong with you, love, you’re just attracted to older men. you’re 18 now, it’s fine to act upon those feelings. you can’t help the type of guys who you find hot! there’s nothing wrong with fantasizing about having sex with women, plenty of girls do. it may just be a fantasy of yours, or you may need to experiment in order to express that curiosity. there’s no particular reason why you’re feeling these things. focus less on why it’s happening and more on enjoying that this is part of who you are.