you probably just did it too frequently, too hard, or maybe you got a little cut. it’s usually pretty sensitive so it can become sore quickly. i think you’ll be just fine as long as you leave it alone until it feels normal again. if it doesn’t go away in a few days, see a doctor.
maybe. talking about sex occasionally is fine, but the fact that he gets angry when you don’t want to have phone sex is a big red flag to me :/. if he truly loved you, he’d respect if/when you don’t want to do something and wouldn’t make you feel badly about it.
yes, but emergency contraception isn’t meant to be used regularly, it’s expensive, it may not work if she’s overweight (here), and doesn’t protect against STI’s. she’d be much better off either just using a condom or going on some form of hormonal birth control.
i doubt that you’re pregnant - it’s possible, but very unlikely. it *probably* is your period because it’s around the same time that your period is due. your period can be affected by change of diet or exercise, illness, stress, etc. i wouldn’t worry about it too much, though of course if you’re concerned, talk to your doctor.
that sounds like it would hurt. i’d recommend doing them on less sensitive areas or using something different like putting a mint in your mouth (as long as your partner is cool with it, of course).
one time on sex sent me to the ER this woman had had her partner go down on her using pop rocks and couldn’t get them out lol.
with warm water and a mild soap before and after each use. try to urinate afterwards as well to prevent infection. it’d be better to use something intended for masturbation, but please make sure that it’s not too large or oddly shaped.
it’s not “bad” and i can understand why you’d prefer that. but it may not be entirely possible - not because there aren’t virgins at college, there are, but because it’s not like you can tell who is/isn’t a virgin just by looking at them. have sex with someone you’re comfortable around and that you click with and try not to focus too much on whether or not they’re a virgin as well. but please don’t feel pressured to have sex before you go off to college. it will happen when it happens and there’s no need at all to rush it.
Hey! I just saw a recent ask from another follower about wanting to have sex while on her period. I have a little input I’d like to submit. In the U.S.(maybe other countries too) there’s a product called a softcup that is kinda like a diva cup but, not rigid so you can have vaginal sex even when it’s still inserted. I’ve used it regularly and as long as it’s inserted correctly, it doesn’t leak and can handle quite a “workout”. Hope this helps.
at the very least, until you’ve cooled off and can take responsibility your part in the fight. i don’t know what time it is where you live, but maybe give it a good night’s sleep and then text him in the morning, or otherwise just wait a few hours so he can cool off too.
there’s nothing you can do about your period, love. i know it’s frustrating, but it’s not that big of a deal. you should just tell him now that you’ve gotten your period and decide what that means for this weekend. if you’re comfortable enough to have sex, go for it! if not, then you can pleasure each other in other ways. he might be disappointed, but he shouldn’t be super upset over it and please don’t allow it to ruin the sleepover you have planned. you’ll still be able to spend that time together before you leave, whether you want to have sex or not.