Well I don't know what to do me an my boyfriend have been a on an off couple for 4months now an like I'm sad cuz of it there's always a new problem popping up an it hurts another thing is I'm the one always hitting him up if I don't we don't talk for days at a time everyone of my friends are telling me to end it but idk if I should or just stay with him I need your advice an bad!!!
Asked by: Anonymous

being on and off with someone isn’t healthy for either of you. breaks are fine and can improve the relationship, but when you’re on and off, you either aren’t working out your issues or it just isn’t meant to be. i think you need to have a conversation with him about what’s going wrong and what the solution is because it can’t continue this way. you probably both have issues to work out, but you have to decide if maybe you just aren’t compatible any longer. but if things don’t change over the next few weeks, you’re better off moving on. it’s sad because i’m sure you still love each other, but you have to do what’s best for both of you and know when it’s time to let go.

there's this boy I like and he likes me too, but when we came to talk about pussies he said he doesn't like flappy pussies cause they are ugly (i checked on internet it's oversized lips) and I kinda have big lips, I'm so self conscious now :(
Asked by: Anonymous

please dump this guy, love. i know you like him, but anyone who makes fun of someone for the way their body is is garbage. you deserve someone who worships every inch of your body and makes you feel nothing less than beautiful.

If you get your partner tested and their test results show that they don't have any problems or sti's and all, is it safe to have oral sex with them without the use of protection?
Asked by: Anonymous

depends on how long after potential exposure they were tested. also, there’s currently no test for HPV for males so you’ll have to assess your risk and decide from there. 

I saw this pic of these guys kissing another guy and it made me wish guys were kissing me just like that so I could feel like I'm attractive to someone. Why do I want this if I'm not sexually attracted to men?
Asked by: Anonymous

it sounds like you just answered your own question, love. you crave that affection and attention from somebody. you don’t have to be sexually attracted to men to appreciate a hot picture!

I'm a little worried - my boyfriend has rubbed my clit many times and I'm turned on but it never actually feels really good, no matter how fast/slow or how long he does it for. What's wrong with me? Does this mean I'll never orgasm? - female, 19
Asked by: Anonymous

it’s just not that sensitive, but that doesn’t mean you won’t ever have an orgasm. try more g-spot stimulation instead, like using a g-spot stimulating toy, or having sex in positions that hit it like doggy style, girl on top, or missionary.

Is it ok to stop looking for someone to love and who loves you?
Asked by: Anonymous

yes, romantic relationships aren’t super important to everyone and that’s completely fine.

Is it rude of me to ask the guy I slept with not to tell anyone? It seemed like he was insulted when I asked but it's not that I'm embarrassed it's just that I'm super self conscious and don't like the idea of him and his friends talking about me and if I was good or how I looked naked and stuff. I just don't like it when people know my business.
Asked by: Anonymous

no, it’s not rude at all to ask for privacy. explain your reasoning to him and it shouldn’t be a problem.

do you think sex is better when you love the person you're having sex with ?
Asked by: Anonymous

for some people, it is. do whatever is best for you, loves.

You posted a video of a girl giving a guy head, do you think you could post one vice versa? Guy/girl eating a girl out? If its not to much trouble
Asked by: Anonymous

i can’t post any videos, here.

I wanted to send this so that hopefully the girl who sent you the anon about being a virgin feels a little better about it. I too, am a virgin. All of my friends have lost their virginities, and I've always felt, to a degree, weird about still being a virgin. I want to have sex, but it scares me to. I guess I'm just saying this so that girl doesn't feel out of place. I hope that her first time is amazing, and she shouldn't worry about it. -18, male.
Asked by: Anonymous
I hate being a virgin, so much. I feel like my friends judge me for it and guys find me weird because I'm a virgin. It's like I'm a fuckin endangered species. But at the same time sex scares me. I've had the opportunity to loose my vCard but I just said No. I don't understand. -20, Girl.
Asked by: Anonymous

you’re probably just not ready for it, which could be for a number of reasons, all of which are valid and are not anyone else’s business. to most people, it’s not a big deal if someone is a virgin, but if they make it seem that way, that’s their problem, not yours. you may feel like you’re the only 20 year old that hasn’t had sex, but that’s not the case. it’s not the best show in the world but MTV is currently airing virgin territory about virgins in early adulthood. it can be a scary thing because you have to allow yourself to be vulnerable in that moment. but when you know you’re ready and the time/person is right, you’ll be just fine. don’t rush it or force it - let it happen when it happens.

Okay I'm not sure if you can help me but I'm hoping you can - I'm looking to invest in my first dildo but I'm a 19 y/o virgin. Do you think that I'm too young? Also, do you have any recommendations for first-time users (in terms of products)?
Asked by: Anonymous

no, i don’t think you’re too young. sex toys can be fun to add into the bedroom, whether you’re solo or with a partner. be mindful of the fact that you don’t want jelly products at all. they harbor bacteria that can cause infection and they’re porous so they’re impossible to clean. i would recommend glass or silicone. if you want something realistic, go for this. if you don’t want one that vibrates, here. here's an example of a glass dildo. this one would stimulate your g-spot. i hope this helps!!

Can you get pregnant if only like half of his penis when in because I'm a virgin and still tight. Also should it hurt when the hymen stretches for the first time
Asked by: Anonymous

yes, possibly, as well as being at risk of STI’s if your partner has had previous partners. always use protection.

it can hurt, but it does help a lot when you’re relaxed, aroused (your vagina lengthens when you get horny), and lubricated (keep a water-based lubricant on hand). it may hurt anyway, though, so just take it slowly and go as gradually as you need to.

What condoms do you recommend?
Asked by: Anonymous

for beginners, just regular lubricated condoms. you can experiment with different ones later and it’s one less thing to worry about. i usually use either spermicidal for extra pregnancy protection or her pleasure.

Do you post every submission?
Asked by: Anonymous

no, but i do post most of them.