Ok so there is this guy I've been talking to for a while now and all of a sudden he has started to talk to me less and less but still tries to claim how much he cares about me. I have a feeling he is talking to another girl but I don't know whether or not i should step up and work hard for his attention or just let it go. I'm not an affectionate person so I don't know if it's me being emotionless or if I'm being rational... What should I do?
Asked by: Anonymous

you shouldn’t have to fight for his attention, love. but i do think you’re acting rationally in that if he’s acting less interested, you may have to let him go. maybe give him one more week, ask him what’s going on, and then if the behavior continues, you’ll know that’s your cue to move on.

I know you are not a doctor but when I try to feel myself, my clit hurts, could it be that I use my viberator to much? It's like I may have pushed down to much on it.
Asked by: Anonymous

yes, frequent masturbation can make it feel painful to touch, especially with something as strong as a vibrator. give it a rest for at least a few days and it should be back to normal.

what does a blog has to have for you to follow that blog? (Sorry for my English :()
Asked by: Anonymous

post all or mostly sexual pictures, be 18+, post pictures that aren’t the same old porn ones i’ve seen over and over, and post every day.

would you fuck any of your follwers?
Asked by: Anonymous

yeah, if we were dating. i am very hard to get to know lol.

I always hear spit or swallow and I get what to do if you swallow, obviously, but exactly do you do when you "spit"? Does that make sense?
Asked by: Anonymous

you just spit it out into a napkin or whatever. i hate those posts that are like ~good girls swallow~. do whatever you’re comfortable with, but please keep in mind that oral sex is not necessarily safe sex so protection should be used if they’ve had previous partners.

When I get hard I can't pull my foreskin all the way back as it's to tight ? Is this normal or what ? I'm 18 and uncircumcised
Asked by: Anonymous

some men’s foreskin retracts further back than others so it is normal. try using a little bit of lubricant and sort of easing it back slowly. you could try stretching it a bit in the shower as well and gradually, it should loosen a little. if it doesn’t interfere with sex or masturbation, you’re probably okay. but you should talk to your doctor about it because they may suggest other stretching exercises or steroid cream that you can use.

So I lost my virginity almost three weeks ago, started birth control in June, and two days after I had sex I've been spotting non stop for two weeks. Is this normal? Because I am so done with this spotting non sense.
Asked by: Anonymous

you should probably see a doctor at this point. spotting is normal, but when it goes on for awhile, it’s best to get checked out. sorry i can’t be of more help!

I've been talking to this guy for a couple of months now and I really like him. He's a virgin and says that it's important to him that I'm one too. I've used toys before but never had actual sex. I haven't used any toys since I started talking to him, but I feel like when we do go to have sex he'll notice if he slips right in, (being the toy was pretty difficult to get in) I don't want to tell him I've used toys because I don't know how he'll feel about it.. Any suggestions?
Asked by: Anonymous

i don’t personally think it matters because you still haven’t had sex and what you use to masturbate is your choice. it’s honestly a little weird to me that it’s so important that you haven’t had sex yet and that you’ve stopped using your toy because of it. i get it in terms of wanting to have that first experience at the same time, but i don’t know, it’s a weird vibe i’m getting. anyway, all women have differently shaped vaginas. even if you hadn’t used a toy, sex may have felt comfortable for you the first time. i wouldn’t worry about it too much and if he makes a fuss about it, then that’s his problem, not yours. since you haven’t used the toy, your vagina probably has gone back to its original shape (it doesn’t get loose, though!). sex ideally shouldn’t be painful at all if you’re properly lubricated, aroused, and relaxed.

Hey, I'm in a lil bit of a tough position & I'm hoping for some advice? 😩 ok so I'm 18 & this guy I like is 19. Recently I moved out west & my next visit back home wont be till Christmas. We had a thing before I left & recently we've sent nudes to eachother, the thing is.. We've never gone to the point where our pants was off & I have self harm scars on my hip area. I don't know how to tell him or if I even should, even though I don't do it anymore, it's still a soft subject to talk about😕
Asked by: Anonymous

i do think you should tell him when you feel ready to so that he’s aware of it and you can feel more comfortable if you do get to the point where your pants are off. some people don’t understand why some people struggle with self harm so just be as open and honest as you’re comfortable with. you struggled with this for x amount of years, you’ve stopped, but you felt that he should know if this is going to continue. scars are nothing to be ashamed of - they are a sign that you’ve survived that pain. but it is a sensitive subject for you, so wait as long as you want and until you’ve established that trust and comfort.

My ex broke up w/me because she felt I was her rebound and felt bad.we still talk but she says that she just wants to get her life situated before being in a relationship.I care a lot about her but I do have needs.would it be wrong to sleep around?
Asked by: Anonymous

nope, as long as she knows that that’s what you’re doing and you’re being safe.

when i was 7 i used to act out my sexual fantasies in my head. they were mostly all very rough and i acted upon them on my own body and my head. but i started experimenting and my first experiment was kissing my own brother. i kissed him three times on three different occasions. i did not know it was wrong at that age. Never kissed him again after that. obviously i don't have any more incest fetishes revolving around my own family. Does it make me horrible?
Asked by: Anonymous

no, love, you were a child and you weren’t aware that it was wrong. it isn’t and wasn’t your fault at all.

Needing advice, I've gotten really close to this guy this week, he's dealing with a lot and sat down one night that we were hanging out and basically told me everything about his past and cried in front of me, I thought he really liked me and we were getting close, we ended up kissing that night and a few nights later had sex, he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship because his recent breakup was bad, which I respected, but now we haven't hung out since the sex and I feel used
Asked by: Anonymous

i don’t think he was using you. i don’t blame you for feeling that way because of the timing, though, and that is his fault. to me, he really opened up to you, but made it clear that he wasn’t ready for a relationship or anything more at all. i think it may be best to just be friends for now. talk to him, see what’s going on (he should apologize for his absence after sex), ask him what he needs, and be there for him as a friend. but beyond that, you’ll get hurt if you hope for more when he’s not able to give you that right now. if he continues to ignore you, you’ve done all you can and you have no other choice but to move on, love.

Okay so I need a little help, a few days ago I was at my best friend's house (we've always kind of flirted) and he said 'fuck me on the bed' just like this and we actually ended in his bed. What should I do? Pretend it never happened or..? Thanks.
Asked by: Anonymous

i think you should talk about it just to clear the air. please be careful with FWB if that’s what you decide, though! establish boundaries (if any), how this will affect your friendship, and that if either of you develop feelings, you tell the person immediately and go from there.

I am constantly wet down there. Any ideas why? It's like I'm turned on all te time but I'm really not.
Asked by: Anonymous

where you’re at in your menstrual cycle, exercising, masturbation/sex, diet, water, etc. can all affect how much discharge you have. different women will have different amounts. it probably is normal, but of course, if you’re concerned, talk to your doctor.

If I miss a pill then have sex and he cums inside me then I take my bc pill the day after the sex do u think I will be fine or Will I get pregnant
Asked by: Anonymous

no, you need to use a condom for the next week after you’re back on track if you miss a pill. when you miss a pill, you’re supposed to take it as soon as you remember and the next one as scheduled. this may mean taking two pills at the same time. you can check with the packet that came with your BC for more information about missed pills. if you do this regularly, consider another form of BC that requires less maintenance.