I am away on vacation with my family for an entire month so since I can't see my boyfriend I've been touching myself more. The other night I was rubbing my clit and my nails are kinda sharp and I've touching myself a lot more often lately but out of no where it started burning. I thought it was no big deal but it kept burning if I touched my clit so I ended up stopping. Should I be concerned? What could this be? Was I too rough on my little bean?
Asked by: Anonymous

you probably just did it too frequently, too hard, or maybe you got a little cut. it’s usually pretty sensitive so it can become sore quickly. i think you’ll be just fine as long as you leave it alone until it feels normal again. if it doesn’t go away in a few days, see a doctor.

Is there a specific vibrator you would recommend?
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I've been talking to this guy for a month & he says he love me & he can see himself with me in the future which is great I guess. but I'm a virgin & he's not, he gets mad when I don't have phone sex with him & he talks about sex a lot, not all the time but occasionally .. do you personally think he's with me just for sex ? or am I just being insecure ?
Asked by: Anonymous

maybe. talking about sex occasionally is fine, but the fact that he gets angry when you don’t want to have phone sex is a big red flag to me :/. if he truly loved you, he’d respect if/when you don’t want to do something and wouldn’t make you feel badly about it.

Please help my friend recently asked if she could have raw sex with her bf and just use plan b the next morning and be fine Is that possible for her not to get pregnant doing that ? I don't know what to tell her I really want to help my best friend
Asked by: Anonymous

yes, but emergency contraception isn’t meant to be used regularly, it’s expensive, it may not work if she’s overweight (here), and doesn’t protect against STI’s. she’d be much better off either just using a condom or going on some form of hormonal birth control.

I'm on birth control and my cycle is from Sun-Sat. I normally start on Mon. However it's now Wednesday and all I've had is light brown discharge. I had sex almost two weeks ago, and then a month before. Always used a condom and it never broke (I did the water test each time). I can't figure out if this is my period or if I should be worried. I want to wait to take a pregnancy test to make sure I wont get a false negative. But I don't know if I'm scared for nothing. (I used MAP two months ago).
Asked by: Anonymous

i doubt that you’re pregnant - it’s possible, but very unlikely. it *probably* is your period because it’s around the same time that your period is due. your period can be affected by change of diet or exercise, illness, stress, etc. i wouldn’t worry about it too much, though of course if you’re concerned, talk to your doctor.

i have been told that poprocks feel good when giving a blowjob, whats your opinion on it?
Asked by: Anonymous

that sounds like it would hurt. i’d recommend doing them on less sensitive areas or using something different like putting a mint in your mouth (as long as your partner is cool with it, of course).

one time on sex sent me to the ER this woman had had her partner go down on her using pop rocks and couldn’t get them out lol.

How would you clean a hairbrush handle to masturbate with ?
Asked by: Anonymous

with warm water and a mild soap before and after each use. try to urinate afterwards as well to prevent infection. it’d be better to use something intended for masturbation, but please make sure that it’s not too large or oddly shaped.

I'm going to college next year and I feel like I should lose my virginity beforehand. I'm fine with losing it to someone as long as I trust them but is it bad if I really only want to lose it to another virgin?
Asked by: Anonymous

it’s not “bad” and i can understand why you’d prefer that. but it may not be entirely possible - not because there aren’t virgins at college, there are, but because it’s not like you can tell who is/isn’t a virgin just by looking at them. have sex with someone you’re comfortable around and that you click with and try not to focus too much on whether or not they’re a virgin as well. but please don’t feel pressured to have sex before you go off to college. it will happen when it happens and there’s no need at all to rush it.

Is it normal for hairy guys to get rid of all of there hair?
Asked by: Anonymous

yes. it’s your body, love, do whatever you want with it!

do you reckon it's wrong for my boyfriend to be talking to me on skype and out of no where start watching other women on porn?
Asked by: Anonymous

yes, that’s rude as hell and he can do that on his own time.

what are some good car sex positions ???
Asked by: Anonymous

i don’t give advice on things that can get you arrested, sorry.

The gif set of the guy like spanking the girl and then her touching his hand idk, where is that from? I think she's like a famous actress, do you know if it's from a movie?
Asked by: Anonymous

the movie is called secretary :).

Hey! I just saw a recent ask from another follower about wanting to have sex while on her period. I have a little input I’d like to submit. In the U.S.(maybe other countries too) there’s a product called a softcup that is kinda like a diva cup but, not rigid so you can have vaginal sex even when it’s still inserted. I’ve used it regularly and as long as it’s inserted correctly, it doesn’t leak and can handle quite a “workout”. Hope this helps.

So this guy I've been seeing for over a month now, we got into our first legit fight and I guess were both at fault, today when he dropped me home, the car ride was complete silence and we didn't even work it out before I got out of the car and he drove off right away, he usually always waits till I turn into my street, I feel like he's a lot more stubborn than I am and won't msg and I don't mind being the one to break the ice but how long do you think I should wait before I msg?
Asked by: Anonymous

at the very least, until you’ve cooled off and can take responsibility your part in the fight. i don’t know what time it is where you live, but maybe give it a good night’s sleep and then text him in the morning, or otherwise just wait a few hours so he can cool off too.

hi! this sunday im going to another country for a month or so my boyfriend was planning to sleepover on friday till saturday and i really really want to fuck but i got my period today, any suggestions on how to delay my period or not really let him down or wtv? i dont think he'd mind but im sure he'd be a bit sad or disappointed just like i am, you know?
Asked by: Anonymous

there’s nothing you can do about your period, love. i know it’s frustrating, but it’s not that big of a deal. you should just tell him now that you’ve gotten your period and decide what that means for this weekend. if you’re comfortable enough to have sex, go for it! if not, then you can pleasure each other in other ways. he might be disappointed, but he shouldn’t be super upset over it and please don’t allow it to ruin the sleepover you have planned. you’ll still be able to spend that time together before you leave, whether you want to have sex or not.